A lot of people would say that friends have more influence than family on teenagers. Some believe that family is the most important. Different people have different angles of thoughts.
Teenagers are surely influenced by their family a lot, since they know them their whole life. But teenagers usually do not listen to their parents, they go out with friends, they meet new people and try new things. They can be influenced in negative ways, which are smoking, missing from school, alcohol and even drugs. Usually, if parents do not have time for their teenager or ignore them, they are more likely to get into dangerous society and end up being influenced by friends.
On the other hand, friends can have very postive influence, for example, they can motivate you to study, they can show you new hobbies and so on.
My view is that it depends on everyone’s personallity if they want to be influenced more by friends or family. I am not really influenced by friends, I just form my own opinions and stuff. Everyone is different.
I think friends have more influence but sometimes it depends on family and society how they will be influenced because not all the teenagers are the same.
To start with the fact that the discussion is really urgent and important. Nowadays teenagers grow up very quickly under the influence of a large number of information as beneficial and harmful. They want to be independent not only in their clothing and in the choice of friends but also in other aspects of life. At this point, the opinion of their friends is more important for them than the opinion of their parents.
First, teenagers spend much more time with their peers than with their parents and they want to assert themselves, to be independent, or at least to seem so. Secondly, the conflict of generations has always been and always will be. It is a natural phenomenon, but most parents behave incorrectly. They do not want to understand that children grow up and they may have their own point of view. Permanent conflicts at home are the reason that teenagers go to the friends who understand them better than parents.
On the other hand, of course, it’s wrong. The most important people in our fate are our parents. They will never betray and won’t hurt you, even if they not always accept your point of view.
In conclusion, I would like to say that adults need to be smarter and more delicate than their children. A compromise is needed. And most importantly, parents have to trust their children and don’t care of them stupidly, then they will see that parents are their friends not enemies. I believe that family is the main thing in our life. That’s why parents must learn how to manage any situation, and the child will respond with love and understanding.
Начну с того, что тема обсуждения действительно актуальна и важна. В наше время подростки очень быстро взрослеют под влиянием огромного количества информации как полезной, так и вредной. Они хотят быть самостоятельными не только в одежде и выборе друзей, но и в других аспектах жизни. На этом этапе мнение друзей для них важнее, чем мнение родителей.
Во-первых, подростки больше времени проводят со сверстниками, чем с родителями и хотят самоутвердиться, быть самостоятельными или хотя бы казаться такими. Во-вторых, конфликт поколений был всегда и всегда будет. Это закономерное явление, но чаще всего родители ведут себя неправильно. Они не хотят понимать, что дети взрослеют и имеют свою точку зрения. Постоянные конфликты в доме являются причиной того, что подростки уходят к друзьям, которые их понимают лучше.
С другой стороны, конечно, это неправильно. Самые важные люди в судьбе - это родители. Они никогда не предадут и не сделают тебе больно, даже если не всегда принимают твою точку зрения.
В заключение хочу сказать, что взрослые люди должны быть умнее и тоньше чувствовать своих детей. Нужен компромисс. И главное, подросткам нужно доверие родителей, а не тягостная опека, и тогда они перестанут видеть в родителях своих недругов. Я считаю, что семья это главное. Родители должны научиться управлять любой ситуацией, и ребенок ответит любовью и пониманием.